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Hand on anus. Place your right hand on the pelvic floor. When he exhales, vibrate the lower palm of your hand. With the other hand, vibrate the rear of the heart at the same time.
And now play the "Let me know" game.
The "Let me in, know" game is another suitable method.
You ask permission to enter and vibrate the rosette with your finger.
Your partner will refuse entry with a clear "No" by squeezing his sphincter muscle until he relaxes and lets you in with a "Yes".